What Does Your Body Language Say To Children

April 28, 2023

As parents, we often focus on what we say to our children, but have you ever considered what your body language is saying to them? Nonverbal communication, including facial expressions, gestures and body posture, can convey powerful messages to our children, sometimes even more so than words. By understanding and intentionally using positive body language, we can create a more effective and supportive communication environment for our children. In this blog post, we will explore the importance of body language in parent-child communication and share some tips on using nonverbal cues to strengthen your relationship with your child.

The Importance of Nonverbal Cues in Children

Children are highly attuned to nonverbal cues and can pick up on subtle changes in facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice. Research suggests that up to 93% of communication is nonverbal. This means that our body language can significantly impact how our children perceive us and our messages. By maintaining eye contact, using an open and relaxed body posture, and showing genuine interest in what our child is saying, we can use positive body language to create a supportive atmosphere that fosters open communication and mutual understanding. This can go a long way towards building a positive relationship with our children and helping them feel heard and valued. Additionally, being mindful of our body language can help us manage our emotions and reactions, allowing us to respond to our children in a more calm and controlled manner.

3 Nonverbal Communication Methods

While positive body language can help us communicate more effectively with our children, it is also important to understand some specific nonverbal cues that can help us build a stronger connection with them. In the following sections, we’ll highlight three key nonverbal communication methods to help you communicate better with your child and improve your overall relationship.

1. Physical Touch

Physical touch is a powerful form of nonverbal communication that can help strengthen the bond between parents and their children. It can take many forms, such as hugs, high-fives, pats on the back, or simply holding hands. Research shows that physical touch can release the hormone oxytocin, which promotes feelings of love and connection. When parents use physical touch to communicate with their children, it can help them feel safe, supported, and valued. Gentle touches, such as a reassuring hand on their arm, a comforting hug when they’re upset, or a congratulatory pat on the head for a job well done, can make a world of difference to your child. Regular physical touch can also help to reduce stress and anxiety in parents and children, making it an important aspect of building a positive relationship.

2. Eye Contact

Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal cues we can use to communicate with our children. When we make eye contact with our children, we show them we are fully present and engaged in the conversation. It helps establish trust and connection and can help our child feel heard and understood. Also, maintaining eye contact can help regulate our emotions and reactions, allowing us to respond to our child in a more calm and controlled manner.

3. Facial Expressions

Facial expressions are a powerful way to convey emotions and feelings without saying a word. Our children are constantly reading our facial expressions, whether we are aware of it or not. By using positive facial expressions, such as a warm smile, a nod of agreement, or an expression of interest, we can show our children that we are fully engaged in the conversation and interested in what they have to say. Similarly, being mindful of negative facial expressions, such as a frown or a look of disapproval, can help us avoid inadvertently sending negative messages to our children.

Nonverbal Cues Help Your Child Understand Emotions 

Nonverbal cues are vital for effective parent-child communication, especially when understanding emotions. Positive body language, physical touch, eye contact and facial expressions create a supportive and nurturing atmosphere that fosters open communication and mutual understanding.

At MindChamps PreSchool, our educators are adept at using nonverbal cues to help each child feel seen, heard, and valued. By understanding their unique needs and emotions, we take a holistic approach to their early childhood development, helping them academically and emotionally thrive. Incorporating nonverbal cues into our interactions with children builds strong, positive relationships that last a lifetime.

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